My shower is this weekend and is being hosted by my mother and two bridesmaids. I'm not involved with it, except when they first told me they were throwing it I requested that the shower be something non-traditional (I'm just not a big fan of traditional showers, I find them a little boring and they just aren't for me). So instead they are throwing us a joint couple's shower that will basically be a big BBQ. I'm not worried about it, I'm sure it will be great, but I was just wondering if anyone else has had a shower like this before. Just curious, how did your non-traditional shower go?