So I just got a call from my FMIL that FBIL is planning a surprise bachelor party for FH (she wants me to get names/numbers of FH's friends for him). Problem is, she told me what they're planning and I know he'll hate it. They plan to take him to NYC (a 2 hour drive) and go to a Dr. Who themed bar (FH has never seen it). Then crash up there because they will be drinking (where? Who knows? They probably don't even know yet!).
So what do I do? Do I go along with it knowing that FH isn't a drinker and hates the city? Or do I help FBIL plan this?
WWYD?