I just got engaged on Friday (squeal!) and the way he did it involved his cousin who is also one of my two best friends (we will call her N), her boyfriend, his best (male) friend and my little sister. When it was all said and done with I asked where if my other best friend was asked to help too ( I will call her C) and my now fiance said no, which was fine since this was his moment and things should have been fine. But then I text C to tell her the good news and she writes me back saying how happy she was for me and that she wished she could have been there. I just said thanks, wish you were too, blah.
Then the next night I am celebrating with my fun aunt and cousin but then I wanted to go dancing so I call C and ask her but she is very down sounding and says she has no money and doesn't want to do anything. Fine by me, then I ask if she wanted to do anything like hang out, see my ring I don't do something because I am beyond excited and I like to share that with others. But she just says that she doesn't want to do anything, stearnly. I ask if this one time if she could just think about me and just hang out but she says she would have coffee with me and I say that's fine but am clearly upset.
Next day comes and no word from her, I still haven't heard from her and it has been four days since I got engaged and my so called best friend hasn't seen my ring, cared to celebrate with me let alone give me a hug! I asked T what I should do about it and she asked me if I really wanted to lose a friend over this but I might be crazy but that just doesn't seem like something to fight with me about? I feel like T is sort of being shady towards me about C and isn't telling me exactly what's going on but I'm so sad that my two best girls in the world aren't being straight with me or are even happy for me!!
Should I bother trying to talk to C? Tell her my feelings were extremely hurt? Should I just give up on the friendship we have? I am always there for her to talk to me about her boyfriend problems I am always down with whatever she wants to do but she couldn't give me a few hours one night? Thank you for reading this, I just don't know what to do.