Long story short- FI and I got engaged in March with family blessings. We are incredibly excited to be married next June. We are doing a destination wedding- simple, no fuss, etc. My parents recently divorced (less than a year ago) so the whole planning of the wedding has been awkward to say the least between the two parties. My mom has been dating a man for two months today and sends me a picture of her hand with an engagement ring. After being upset about the sudden nuptials, she proceeds to tell me that I am lucky they have decided to wait until right after my ceremony to wed. I want to be happy that she is getting married but its all too much too soon. I feel like my wedding plans have escalated her need to get married as well and now it's all about her---- "this is what I am doing at my wedding, etc." Please help! I need advice. I want to be as delicate as possible because I want her to be a part of my wedding but I also want to plan my wedding with her with her being my mom and not another bride. Am I being too selfish and how do I approach this?!?!