I have forever to go it feels like some days but then others I feel I need to rush to get my self and my plans in gear. I'm a "have to have a plan" type of girl and I feel like planning my wedding day is not going to be a great plan. And it doesn't help with everyone saying I should do this and this and when I say, "No thank you" I'm all of a sudden a bridezilla. That's not fair.