My FI and I both agree that we don't want to do the super traditional vows you always see in movies, but we want to say the same thing to one another. Ideally, something the pastor would read and we could repeat back to one another so we don't have to fumble with pieces of paper or have to read out loud.
Have any of you used vows like that? If so, send me examples!!! I'm not opposed to us writing our own but it would be easier if we had a basic example of some we liked and we could modify them from there.