Sorry, I didn't know where to post this.
I have not..for nicer terms..been very close to my father. After they divorced, there were a lot of issues, including him trying to rip us off as far as child support and things of that nature. Basically, I don't want to invite him.
My FI has had possibly worse connections to his father, his father is now back in Peru and we don't have an idea exactly where he is.
We are considering a "no fathers" rule for our wedding. but I am concerned that my family on that side doesn't see that side of him and may barrage me with questions of why he wasn't invited. I don't want to be thinking about that while I am trying to plan a wedding and go through my senior year. How do I stick to my guns? or roll over to make my family happy?