I need a kick in the pants. I need someone to tell me I'm either being a fool or doing what I want would be cruel.
My dog lives with my parents. I have cut ties with my parents. I have not seen him since. It was always the plan to bring him to live with me, but I keep making excuses.
The spoken excuses are:
We live on a busy road. Cars going up and down at high speeds all day and night.
What if he got loose and was hit by a car again?
He currently lives with 2 other dogs, won't he be lonely here?
H and I work the same time for about 6 1/2 - 7 hours a few days a week - won't he be lonely?
We don't have a large fenced in yard, he will have to be on a leash whenever we go outside.
The unspoken excuses are:
I hate having fur everywhere.
Poop.
Poop and pee messes in the house.
Whatever dream I had this morning caused me to wake up bawling and telling H I want him to come live with us.
Am I being a fool for not bringing him here already? Or should I leave him with my parents because it would be cruel to take him away from his longtime home?
Bailey: