I tried to do a nice thing. And it's totally backfired! I worked with an Etsy shop to get custom stationery designed. The design was beautiful, they printed so easily, and the girl that designed them was great. So I left a review.
I rarely purchase on Etsy. Apparently they put a photo of what you purchased right there next to your review. The photo they're using is the proofs of the stationery. So it has our names and wedding date/time/location. To make it worse, and the reason for my panic, she designed directions cards for our after party. So there's literally something out there that has our home address, directions on how to get there, and, for added convenience, the date/time when we can guarantee no one will be home.
I'm freaking right the fuck out!!!!!
The girl I reviewed responded quickly to my request to delete or blur the photo. But she has no way of doing it. So far, we've both emailed Etsy, and I've "requested" a phone call from them. The only response I've had is that my problem can't be handled by the phone people, and they've passed it on to someone else. I can't delete the review. It's only been a few hours, but I'm losing it a little more every minute. And they frown upon drinking at work. I need lots of wine.
I'd love it if someone has some good advice. If not, please learn from my horrible mistake!! I can at least be a cautionary tale.