My Fiance and I have been living together for over a year. We have all the essentials for a place, everything is pretty much brand new (cookware, serving-ware, silverware) everything. Instead of my bridesmaids throwing me a bridal shower, would it be rude if I asked them to chip in together and take one wedding cost and pay for that, such as the invites or favors (both are under $100). This would help both my fiance and I out with the cost of the wedding.
My fiance and I do not have alot of money, so our wedding is going to be simple and elegant. We are having a small wedding of 50-60 people. Neither of us have family helping us pay for anything.