I just looked at the Reeds at Shelter Haven in Stone Harbor, NJ and fell in love! We are trying to decide between mid September or a little later October for our wedding! What month do you think would be a better choice? We want to be able to be outside. I think September, but the only reason we leaned towards October is because they have an outdoor restaurant and the end of October that isn't open so the entire outside will be ours. In September a portion will be blocked off for us outside and they said they haven't had anyone complain about that yet, which makes me feel if it was an issue they would of changed it. For both months all of cocktail hour is outside and restaurant isn't open during that. October they just leave the cocktail hour chairs set up instead of opening restaurant. We are looking at a Sunday in September, so figured the restaurant wouldn't be that busy anyways after everyone just finishing up the summer. I am just really torn between which decision to make