Ok so, i have a strict number of invites which is 109. my dad is paying for the catering and venue. My fiancé's mum wants to invite more people and pay for it. My fiancé doesn't want to invite half of the people she wants to invite. so my question is: can I not send save the dates to them, BUT send an wedding invite 2 months prior to the wedding? Most of these guests she wants to invite are from england. How do i say no.... when she is throwing money at me, i just rather not have too many people and especially people my fiancé doesn't want there... if we do send save the dates to the people we want to invite... will the others get mad? what is the smartest way to do this : invite but not really invite people. " just to keep the peace " -____-