I'm in a wedding for one of my best friends. MOH has been planning B-party, and I've offered to help several times. I'm long distance, so I understand there's not a lot I can do, but the bride is my best friend so I want to be involved in planning her send-off into married life.
Every time I talk to MOH about wanting to help, she says "okay, great, I'll let you know"....but is now just treating me like a guest to the B-party (sent out E-vites, didn't confer with me on anything that is going on for the day beforehand). I'm afraid she is just going to ask me to contribute monetarily without me having helped plan at all - which I probably would because I want the party to be perfect for her, but I'd be annoyed at the same time.
Should I continue to offer to help, to just let her do everything and see what happens? Party is in a few weeks.