We found an old law that allows us to perform a "self-uniting marriage"
in our state. So our county is allowing it since the wedding is on a
holiday, and the judge isn't able to perform the ceremony.
We'd like
to have my father "officiate" by saying some marriage blessings from
our heritages. We'll be writing our own vows too. We also want to do a
"wedding knot" ceremony and a "sand ceremony."
Any idea where we can
find some basic ceremony wording?! Or if any of you have had a wedding
performed by someone other than a religious figure, what was said? I'm
having no luck with Google searches. I even tried YouTube looking for
videos of peoples' ceremonies, but not much luck there either. Most of
what I found was religious.