My fiancé decided to postponed our nuptials twice last year (Sept & Dec) due to financial debt he had accumulated following his first marriage (messy divorce) that years later he was still paying off. We both agreed on the first date and I let him set the 2nd date based on when he thought he'd be ready. This summer his mother who is elderly fell and has been in the hospital for 2 months. Her health is declining and her prognosis is not good. My fiancé is very emotional, distraught and has mentioned canceling the wedding. I have been by his side and continue to try and comfort him as I understand what he is going through. Our wedding is in mid September and I'm not sure what to do. My planner and our pre marriage counselor sees no reason to postpone the wedding. We have been together 7 years. Has anyone been in this situation?