Hi - Sorry if this has been asked before, I did a search and only found an old discussion about a grandmother so thought I could ask again.
FI's mom died 8 years ago this November. My mom wants us to light a candle and add a line about her to the program. I'm not sure what to do. I've seen in other topics people think displays in remembrance are morbid for a wedding and I tend to agree. We weren't even going to have programs until my mom had this idea. FI will not care, though his dad would probably be touched.
Thoughts? Should we leave out the candle but include a brief line in a program? Skip it all together?