So my fiancé and I have already picked a date and venue for next year September 10, 2016! We got engaged August 2015. Initially,we wanted August 27th but we had to change for his brother. I have always wanted a wedding in the warmer months because well Chicago weather is very unpredictable so I was worried about having the wedding in any other month (besides summer). We found a venue that we loved but the only date available was September 10. So we had no choice but to choose September 10th (He wanted a Saturday wedding). Well 1 year prior September 2013, his aunt passed away from cancer on that day. He spoke to his mother and his mother said it was ok to have the wedding on that date. However, today he told his other family members and they were not too thrilled about this date. I was not trying to insensitive at all, but we really did not have a choice. Any opinions on the matter? Did anyone experience anything similar? It was not my intention to ever be insensitive to anyone.