We are trying to keep our wedding guest list to those we are close with and know both of us very well. I have a lot of cousins and it was an effort to get them all on the guest list as it is. I have two older cousins (19 and 24yo) and both of their parents (my aunts) have asked me if the significant others are invited. I addressed the save the dates to the parents and the cousins only for this reason. Am I in the wrong? And how do I respond?