Ok so I've got my STDs already - they list our names, date, location of the wedding, and our wedding website. However they are not going out to everyone (thanks Knotties for that advice). I'll be sending them out next month to our OOT families and will be ordering my invites soon.
So two questions:
1. Our RSVP card will have a line for guests to list any food allergies/diet restrictions. However we are having a buffet dinner so they won't have to choose their entree (caterer will bring enough of both meats for everyone). Should I put in an extra card with the menu on it so people know what we're having? (and by that, also know if they're allergic to anything on our menu). The whole menu is gluten free (my mom is gf) and the only shellfish would be one of our apps, so I'm mostly worried about lactose intolerant (we have a mashed potato bar) and vegetarians.
2. I've been told its rude to put our wedding website on the invite because it has our registries and I don't want to look gift-grabby. If I do a small menu card, would it be ok to put the wedding website at the bottom? We're still deciding on our apps for cocktail hour (we're leaning towards a crab dip for one of them, but not sure what else) so they won't be on the menu card but they will be on the website once we figure them out. We also have directions on there to our venue along with a brief description of the marina (so people have an idea of the formality of the venue). If I don't do a menu card, is there another way to include the website? Or should I not worry about including it at all?
Really want to make sure I'm not being rude or gift grabby - I just want my guests to come, eat, drink, and have fun.