My wedding isn't until April 29, 2017. I was going to ask my bridal party in March or April. But my younger cousin lives out of state and I only see her for Thanksgiving, Christmas, and sometimes in the summer. I was going to ask her this week while she is in town to be a bridesmaid. Is it to early to ask her? Also what's a good thing for a 13 year boy to do at the wedding? We won't need any ushers and we don't have anyone his age to walk with as a groomsman. I think he is immature to be a reader. Any suggestions?