My MOH lives on the complete opposite coast as I do. This led to some non traditional planning to make sure she be included in major wedding events. I had my bridal shower 9 months before my wedding. My wedding is now 4 months away and my family wants to plan a couples shower to get everyone excited about the wedding since its been so long since we have involved others. Is this rude or tacky? Can I invite the same people I did from the bridal shower to the couples shower but now with their spouse? Can I theme it a kitchen couples shower or something else to make it seem different? The groom and groomsmen have felt left out on a lot of pre celebrations regarding the wedding. Women usually dress shop multiple times, have a bridal shower, have meetings to discuss wedding details, fill out invitations, etc... Meanwhile the men have done barely anything except discuss bachelor party options. What is the etiquette on this?
Thanks in advance.