My wedding is at the end of August. I am starting to really question one of my bridesmaids. She is the only one complaining about buying her dress, to the point I offered to just buy her dress for her (its only $100). The only messages she responds to are about her hair and her dress and how her family needs to be invited and they are all bringing plus ones - even though we clearly told people no plus ones unless we have spoke to you because we have a very very limited budget.
I am an extremely easy going bride, the only messages I send to my girls are about being excited about things coming in the mail - like my headpiece, my daughters flower girl dress, etc. I am not asking anything of these girls other than to buy their dresses and show up for the rehearsal and wedding. I am just feeling really used and let down by her. She literally changes the subject every time I try to talk about the wedding at all and she never responds to any of my emails/messages/texts about the wedding.
Am I being oversensitive about her lack of caring? Or should I talk to her and tell her I don't think its a good idea for her to be in it anymore since she clearly has no interest or care about this important day for me and my family. I am really really bad with confrontation.