I’ve recently started dating the most amazing guy—he’s one of the most understanding, kind people I've met in years. So far our relationship is going great. The problem is he's overweight and sedentary. I’m plenty attracted to him, but it's causing problems because my life is very active. When my friends want to go hiking or biking, out dancing or rock climbing, I have to make a choice between doing what is fun for me or sticking with him in a car or a chair somewhere. I also find being so still ungodly boring. He definitely tries at times to keep up with us but really struggles. I’m not sure how to go about compromising on this.
—New Partner, Different Lifestyles