A woman from church just threw me a wonderful, beautiful shower and I'm so appreciative of all of the work she did for me! That being said, I gave her a list a few months before (after she told me a number) and she sent out the invitations. But at the shower, I realized several people there were not on the list, nor were they invited to the wedding.
Now I feel obligated to invite these people to my wedding, especially since they cared enough to come and bring gifts. But we were trying to keep our numbers low and this is 10+ people that we had not considered. Plus, they will likely come because they live in the area and are church friends.
I know it's not the fault of the people that were accidentally invited, but I can't decide what to do. Should I invite them and eat the cost? Or can I not invite them to the wedding.