My other half started a new job that takes him out of state every week. We knew that going in so we decided to spend all of February-May 2016 seeking out vendors and trying to narrow down who we liked best. Our date is 4/14/2018. We originally thought we would pay all deposits in October (2016-18 months out). I thought that might be a load of stress off of me while he is gone.
My questions is, Is that a reasonable amount of time? Too soon? We are from a small town and when I told the vendors what I wanted to do they kinda looked at me funny and said most people don't do that. What should I do?
Thanks in advance!