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Thursday

Morning, all! 

We slept in our new bed last night for the first time. Twiggy has deemed it to be acceptable. 


The bed is a king, and somehow he still ended up sleeping on top of me, so I have no idea how the mattress is.

I've mentioned before that I walk the dogs obscenely early.  Normally, our street is very quiet and there's usually no traffic (because who in their right mind would willingly be awake at 4am?).  When there is a fellow crazy, we get off the road, and everyone goes on their merry way.  This morning, a truck I had never seen before drove past me.  Slowly.  Then it turned around and drove back towards me.  My first honest thought was, "I'm about to get shot for being that creeper."  You can't miss us, we have reflective collars and leashes, an atomic flashlight, and I have this ridiculous reflective orange floppy hat I wear.  The truck slowed to a stop and a guy asked if I was okay. I told him yes, I'm just walking my dogs (cue Twiggy going banana sandwich).  He said ok, kind of skeptically, and drove off.  

So that was unsettling because it's never happened before, but I understand why he stopped.  I'm walking down a dark street, alone, in the dark, at an ungodly hour. *I'm* the creeper in this story.  Or I'm in trouble. Well prepared, with my flashlight and reflective hat, but in trouble.

But what was weird was, the strange truck didn't turn around and pass me a third time, like I expected if he was back to going where he was originally headed.  I got to the stop sign about ten minutes later, and the same truck is just cruising down a side street, reeeeeally slowly, like someone canvassing a neighborhood (I promise I'm truly not this paranoid, but it's 4am, and all of this is so so so weird). Well, the dogs and I beat feet home, and I tried so very hard not to think, "This is how horror movies start."  The coyotes howling in the distance and the weird silence--not even a cricket, or an owl this morning, very strange--only kicked my imagination into overdrive. 

And then I hit a giant possum on my way in.


"And when they use our atoms to make new lives, they won’t just be able to take one, they’ll have to take two, one of you and one of me..."
--Philip Pullman

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  • @atomicblonde I'd probably have gotten his tag number and called him in to the police. That just sounds extra sketchy.

    I've got a few things to do at work today, but nothing major. My house is being inspected Saturday. I'm taking off a half day tomorrow to close on H's house. It's time to start packing, but Mouse is being so needy right now. 
  • I'd definitely be creeped out by that @atomicblonde, even if he was trying to "help" the cruising around bound make me wary. 

    Congrats on the closing @DrillSergeantCat!

    Not much here today. Replying to emails I've ignored too long, packing for New York, and dropping by the clinic for a late shift. Getting excited for the city, but so tired of packing. 

  • Yikes @atomicblonde HE definitely sounds like the creeper in the situation. Do you think he lived around there?
  • @atomicblonde, I can definitely understand why you found that guy unnerving.  Ugh.  Cracking up at your comment of Twiggy going "banana sandwich".  That's a fun phrase.

    Speaking of puppers.  My H was out in the front yard with our dog, Izzy.  He was talking to our next door neighbor.  Who was eating a banana.  Izzy starts pacing around, getting excited, standing on her hind legs.  The neighbor laughs and asks, "What's going on with Izzy?"  My H laughs and says, "I think she wants some banana."  So my neighbor gives her a piece of banana and she gobbles it right up.

    But here is what is funny about that.  Bananas really aren't one of her favorite treats.  This is how it usually goes.  I give her a piece of banana.  She puts it on the ground and looks back up at me...hoping for a "better" treat.  When no better treat comes after about a minute, then she'll leisurely eat her piece of banana.  No gobbling.

    I swear, I think Izzy wanted a treat from the neighbor...not because she wanted some banana...but to train a new person to give her treats, lol.  Don't let her innocent looking, sweet little face fool you.  She knows how to turn on the charm to get what she wants ;).

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  • @atomicblonde  He is definitely the creeper here. Not you. That just sounds uncomfortable though!

    @DrillSergeantCat  Mouse must know change is afoot. Wish I could come hang out with you guys, so then you could pack and Mouse gets attention he seems to want :( 

    @charlotte989875  yay New York, boo packing :(


    So M got shorts last night. When we went top karting some gas had leaked on to his jeans, and they don't smell as bad but they need to go through the wash again this weekend likely.

    Not much tonight, but tomorrow some people are coming over for poker. I'm charging the tablet so I can watch netflix without people bugging me lol
    Actually, I may take my time on my way home.

    2/4 tops I ordered from Dresslily came in. I think I'm gonna wear one on Saturday when M and I go on our long awaited date :) Breakfast and Guardians 2 - plus some cleaning.
    If Sunday weather is good, I'm gonna try cleaning up the backyard garden. M's gonna clip the weeds hopefully on Saturday.


    Also more serious talk about baby related things since we're a month-ish away from TTC. We have electrician coming on Monday to see about the basement outlets.

    Crazy fact. We're a month away from TTC :|!!!!
  • @short+sassy  Animals are weird like that. Angel isn't a big 'people food' eater but if my mum or M's stepdad offers him food, he will take it. Unless he feels he deserves it - like clam chowder or olives - then that large paw of his will come at me and try to 'grab' whatever he wants.
    Penny is just weird. I watch her lick the floor or heating vents or a random chip that M dropped .... {this morning it was a lime tostito}
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    Speaking of creepers there has been a report of a car trying to lure kids with sidewalk chalk. Plates are legit to a guy with a looooooong list of crap. I followed the car out of my neighborhood this morning.  I called the sheriff but I'm still shaking. 
  • Oh 6! That is terrifying! I hope he is on probation or something that they can take him away for!

  • @MissKittyDanger I appreciate that. He has literally been up my ass since Friday; like coming up behind me and putting his head on my butt. He both wants me to hold him and not hold him. H is bringing home some totes and the plan is to just kind of toss stuff in there that we're not using right now. 

    @6fsn that is scary. I'd be shaking too. 


  • @short+sassy  Animals are weird like that. Angel isn't a big 'people food' eater but if my mum or M's stepdad offers him food, he will take it. Unless he feels he deserves it - like clam chowder or olives - then that large paw of his will come at me and try to 'grab' whatever he wants.
    Penny is just weird. I watch her lick the floor or heating vents or a random chip that M dropped .... {this morning it was a lime tostito}



    My cat Nip begs for food WAY more than the dog does.  Never mind she rarely wants anything we are eating.  In fact, if I go in the kitchen, it is usually the cat who comes first.  She will start meowing for treats.  Izzy hears the meows and quickly comes into the kitchen.  Shredded cheese is my go-to treat for both of them.  They each really like it and I can easily control the portion size.

    Every once in a great while, usually if I am eating bone-in chicken, the cat will tentatively reach her little paw over to my plate and try to snag some!  While I'm eating!  Oh no, little girl.  You have lost your mind.

    Fun fact about cats.  They have few taste buds for the flavor of "sweet".  As such, they typically don't want fruit, candy or other sweet foods.  Unlike our dog buddies.  Who have fairly similar taste buds to humans.

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  • @atomicblonde - that does sound a little creepy.

    @DrillSergeantCat - good luck with the move


    I had the worse night's sleep.  I was tossing and turning all night.  Finally moved to the couch.  Then my stomach started aching, then my head pounding.  I felt like  I work  up with a hangover or more like a hangover from a sleeping pill or painkiller.  Which is strange because I haven't had a drink since Monday and haven't taken anything pill wise.   I'm still feeling off right now.



    My sort-of creepy moment.   Over the holiday I binge watched Leah Remini's show on Scientology.  On Tuesday I finished the series by watching a q&a.   Yesterday in the mail I received a pamphlet from the Church of Scientology.   It's not the first time I received one from them.  The first time was a few weeks after I bought Leah's book a few years ago.     






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  • That's super weird @lyndausvi. I assume that's some sort of data list they bought from your cable company or streaming service? Creepy. 

  • 6fsn said:

    Speaking of creepers there has been a report of a car trying to lure kids with sidewalk chalk. Plates are legit to a guy with a looooooong list of crap. I followed the car out of my neighborhood this morning.  I called the sheriff but I'm still shaking. 


    Yikes!!!


  • @MissKittyDanger I appreciate that. He has literally been up my ass since Friday; like coming up behind me and putting his head on my butt. He both wants me to hold him and not hold him. H is bringing home some totes and the plan is to just kind of toss stuff in there that we're not using right now. 


    I was that kid who could tell when changes were happening - similar reaction to Mouse is doing. Only way my mum could help ease my reaction was to get me excited and involved, or she would have me out of the situation for a bit to kind of relax it {typically weekend at either grandparent's place}


  • I was that kid who could tell when changes were happening - similar reaction to Mouse is doing. Only way my mum could help ease my reaction was to get me excited and involved, or she would have me out of the situation for a bit to kind of relax it {typically weekend at either grandparent's place}


    I wish I could do that, but my mom still can't pick him up and H's mom will never be alone with him for an extended period of time until he can talk well enough to explain his needs to her. 






  • @short+sassy  Animals are weird like that. Angel isn't a big 'people food' eater but if my mum or M's stepdad offers him food, he will take it. Unless he feels he deserves it - like clam chowder or olives - then that large paw of his will come at me and try to 'grab' whatever he wants.
    Penny is just weird. I watch her lick the floor or heating vents or a random chip that M dropped .... {this morning it was a lime tostito}





    My cat Nip begs for food WAY more than the dog does.  Never mind she rarely wants anything we are eating.  In fact, if I go in the kitchen, it is usually the cat who comes first.  She will start meowing for treats.  Izzy hears the meows and quickly comes into the kitchen.  Shredded cheese is my go-to treat for both of them.  They each really like it and I can easily control the portion size.

    Every once in a great while, usually if I am eating bone-in chicken, the cat will tentatively reach her little paw over to my plate and try to snag some!  While I'm eating!  Oh no, little girl.  You have lost your mind.

    Fun fact about cats.  They have few taste buds for the flavor of "sweet".  As such, they typically don't want fruit, candy or other sweet foods.  Unlike our dog buddies.  Who have fairly similar taste buds to humans.



    Bolded is Angel. I usually tap his paw and say "No, you know better!" {if it's a second time, I will tell him "we've talked about this"}
    Sneaky cats.

    Yeh when it comes to olives, Penny just sucks them dry {salt} but Angel GOBBLES it. His then hers.
  • *le sigh* is prudie ever going to come today? It is almost my bed time. ;)






  • @short+sassy  Animals are weird like that. Angel isn't a big 'people food' eater but if my mum or M's stepdad offers him food, he will take it. Unless he feels he deserves it - like clam chowder or olives - then that large paw of his will come at me and try to 'grab' whatever he wants.
    Penny is just weird. I watch her lick the floor or heating vents or a random chip that M dropped .... {this morning it was a lime tostito}





    My cat Nip begs for food WAY more than the dog does.  Never mind she rarely wants anything we are eating.  In fact, if I go in the kitchen, it is usually the cat who comes first.  She will start meowing for treats.  Izzy hears the meows and quickly comes into the kitchen.  Shredded cheese is my go-to treat for both of them.  They each really like it and I can easily control the portion size.

    Every once in a great while, usually if I am eating bone-in chicken, the cat will tentatively reach her little paw over to my plate and try to snag some!  While I'm eating!  Oh no, little girl.  You have lost your mind.

    Fun fact about cats.  They have few taste buds for the flavor of "sweet".  As such, they typically don't want fruit, candy or other sweet foods.  Unlike our dog buddies.  Who have fairly similar taste buds to humans.



    Mouse must be an anomaly. That cat loves fruit. Strawberries, kiwi, cantaloupe, bananas. . .if you don't give her some, she'll steal it. She also loves fruit-flavored yogurt.



  • Morning, all! 

    We slept in our new bed last night for the first time. Twiggy has deemed it to be acceptable. 


    The bed is a king, and somehow he still ended up sleeping on top of me, so I have no idea how the mattress is.

    I've mentioned before that I walk the dogs obscenely early.  Normally, our street is very quiet and there's usually no traffic (because who in their right mind would willingly be awake at 4am?).  When there is a fellow crazy, we get off the road, and everyone goes on their merry way.  This morning, a truck I had never seen before drove past me.  Slowly.  Then it turned around and drove back towards me.  My first honest thought was, "I'm about to get shot for being that creeper."  You can't miss us, we have reflective collars and leashes, an atomic flashlight, and I have this ridiculous reflective orange floppy hat I wear.  The truck slowed to a stop and a guy asked if I was okay. I told him yes, I'm just walking my dogs (cue Twiggy going banana sandwich).  He said ok, kind of skeptically, and drove off.  

    So that was unsettling because it's never happened before, but I understand why he stopped.  I'm walking down a dark street, alone, in the dark, at an ungodly hour. *I'm* the creeper in this story.  Or I'm in trouble. Well prepared, with my flashlight and reflective hat, but in trouble.

    But what was weird was, the strange truck didn't turn around and pass me a third time, like I expected if he was back to going where he was originally headed.  I got to the stop sign about ten minutes later, and the same truck is just cruising down a side street, reeeeeally slowly, like someone canvassing a neighborhood (I promise I'm truly not this paranoid, but it's 4am, and all of this is so so so weird). Well, the dogs and I beat feet home, and I tried so very hard not to think, "This is how horror movies start."  The coyotes howling in the distance and the weird silence--not even a cricket, or an owl this morning, very strange--only kicked my imagination into overdrive. 

    And then I hit a giant possum on my way in.




    lyndausvi said:

    @atomicblonde - that does sound a little creepy.

    @DrillSergeantCat - good luck with the move


    I had the worse night's sleep.  I was tossing and turning all night.  Finally moved to the couch.  Then my stomach started aching, then my head pounding.  I felt like  I work  up with a hangover or more like a hangover from a sleeping pill or painkiller.  Which is strange because I haven't had a drink since Monday and haven't taken anything pill wise.   I'm still feeling off right now.



    My sort-of creepy moment.   Over the holiday I binge watched Leah Remini's show on Scientology.  On Tuesday I finished the series by watching a q&a.   Yesterday in the mail I received a pamphlet from the Church of Scientology.   It's not the first time I received one from them.  The first time was a few weeks after I bought Leah's book a few years ago.     



    6fsn said:

    Speaking of creepers there has been a report of a car trying to lure kids with sidewalk chalk. Plates are legit to a guy with a looooooong list of crap. I followed the car out of my neighborhood this morning.  I called the sheriff but I'm still shaking. 


    Wow, all of these are creepy AF! I'm glad you called the police, @6fsn!
  • Congratulations on the closing and hope the move goes smoothly, @DrillSergeantCat!
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    So dh did actually ask his hr specialist for help on this insurance issue. She sent him a number and said talk to Connie. I was so excited.  I called, it's the general effing number for the insurance company. There is no effing Connie there. I got the Same base level bs "we'll send back to the analyst for review" blah blah.  I pushed her on it and did get some new information but I'm sick of this bs. Last year I had to fight my mammogram, the year before that the annual lab work.  We pay stupid high premiums and this stuff is supposed to FREE. THey try to promote a healthy workplace and and preventive care but the. Have to jump through FUCKING HOOPS to actually get the benefits. 
  • edited June 2017
    Speaking of pups I'm dog sitting this cutie tonight. Figured it was a good cat test for adopting one. 



    Truman is hiding behind the sofa and Kennedy is MIA. But no one has peed or fought so yay!

    @6fsn thats terrifying!  Good for you for calling the cops. @atomicblonde That would worry me too. Did you at least write down a description of him and his truck?
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  • @missJeanLouise, I'd never seen the truck before, but I can't say for sure he was a stranger to the neighborhood. My gut says he was, because of the weirdness, and because there's no reason to be prowling around a rural neighborhood at 4am. @DrillSergeantCat, I wish I'd thought to get his plate, but I didn't think too much of it until we got to the stop sign and then I just wanted to not be seen again.  @kimmiinthemitten, it was too dark to see the guy, or his truck color or make, but if I had to give a description to the police, I could definitely provide some details.  

    I will make DH walk with us tomorrow though.


    "And when they use our atoms to make new lives, they won’t just be able to take one, they’ll have to take two, one of you and one of me..."
    --Philip Pullman



  • @kimmiinthemitten  that's excellent so far! :)
    I joke this will be my house if we get a dog {cat would be Angel}




    I put up a baby gate to keep them separate for now. But thus far the pup has zero interest in the cats. They've crept out twice to see if she's still on the other side. 
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  • @kimmiinthemitten  sneaky cats :') but that's good. Hopefully it keeps good that way!
  • @atomicblonde I think I'd go ahead and at least call it in to the police. There's nothing wrong with asking for a little extra police presence.
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    Speaking of pups I'm dog sitting this cutie tonight. Figured it was a good cat test for adopting one. 



    Truman is hiding behind the sofa and Kennedy is MIA. But no one has peed or fought so yay!

    @6fsn thats terrifying!  Good for you for calling the cops. @atomicblonde That would worry me too. Did you at least write down a description of him and his truck?





    Ooohhhh...sooo cute!  She looks so friendly and happy.

    My H specifically picked our dog from the pound because he watched two dogs rush her aggressively.  But she stayed calm as a cucumber.  She was both unfazed and was not aggressive in return.  His thought was, "Hmmm...I think you'll get along with my cat just fine."

    Our cat was terrified of her, at first, and just hid.  Then, on Day 3, I watched Nip very specifically walk right past Izzy.  Without even breaking her stride, she turned her head and hissed at her, as she walked by.  And Izzy?  She wagged her tail excitedly because the cat finally paid attention to her, lol.

    At that point, I knew everything would be great between them.  And Nip was back to her Queen of the House self.

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  • Has anyone seen this article?

    11yr old forced to marry 20yr old from church who raped her
    https://www.nytimes.com/2017/05/26/opinion/sunday/it-was-forced-on-me-child-marriage-in-the-us.html?_r=0
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