I was a bride just a few months ago and now I'm in a wedding for one of my friends. She has picked an awful cut on me, it makes me look really chunky in the wrong spots and I'm worried even when I get it altered it will still look awful. Honestly none of us look good. The other 3 hate it too, we don't mind the color but the cut is bad. She wants us all to go to lunch next weekend and then look at them again and order them....so would you consider it rude if us girls made some other suggestions? I don't want to be difficult but I feel like we all look awful and people will notice that and not how amazing the bride will look.