My younger sister got engaged after we did, and planned her wedding before mine. Long story short, it was a total disaster of a wedding and anything that could have gone wrong, did, because she refused to ask for help, and booked an outdoor venue in February in Tennessee. I (the older sister) was her MOH and did EVERYTHING for her, flew back and forth for parties, dresses, etc. My sister is the type of person who believes she is never wrong, and she is incapable of having a conversation without it being filled with sarcasm and attitude. The day of the wedding, there was some confusion about bridesmaid bouquets and while it ended up fine in the end, and she had NO idea...her best friend pulled me aside during the reception in the pouring, freezing rain to scold me for dropping the ball and blamed it all on me. I later overheard the same 'maid and her friends agreeing she should have been the MOH instead. After my speech which I got numerous compliments on, I overheard the groom's mother and brother making fun of me for trying to upstage the BM. The list goes on, but my sister never formally thanked me, I received no thank you gift or even a text thank you for everything I did for her. Now I am getting married 13 months after her, and she has assumed she will be my MOH, and has already told everyone as such. I'm choosing her out of necessity, but I truly don't want to. She hasn't asked me once if I needed help with anything, and when I expressed frustration over some decisions I was making, she scolded me for being "dramatic". I don't have many close friends, so a 2 person bridal party was difficult for me to pull together as it is. Please help! Anyone else experience these kinds of issues??