I am in the process of working on my parents photo album and I have run into an issue. My sister's boyfriend who my family and I like don't like was included in photos because I felt like I had to include him. However, I don't really want to include those photos in my parents album since she has only been with the guy for nine months, but I would like to include photos my brother's wife is in since she is actually part of the family and has been in our lives for four years. She was also one of my bridesmaids so she is obviously going to be included in bridesmaids photos. Two months prior to dating this guy, she had been engaged to her high school sweetheart so she tends to move on pretty quickly. I am worried my sister will notice he isn't included in any of the photos in my parents book. Should I just include him knowing that if they break up he will be in my parents album or should exclude him and hope she doesn't notice or say anything.
Re: Dilemma
Bonus if you can have those two photos on back to back pages that can be removed should they break up.
He was at your wedding. Whether they break up or stay together forever, he will have been part of your wedding and part of the photos. Keeping him out of the photos is like trying to rewrite history. He was there. You can't change it. Use the photos you like, don't go looking for ones that he's not in.
FWIW, I look at our wedding photos and the signature matte that we used as a guestbook and since we got married at least two couples have divorced and plenty who were in really long term relationships broke up. It happens.
It really seems like you're just creating this dilemma as an excuse to put down your sister's relationship.
You are WAY over thinking this.