Several of the families invited have kids but with the venue we have chosen is not really kid friendly. It would be fine for teens, but not for young kids (whose parents don't watch them and they are little house apes. Not nice I know, but totally accurate.) We are thinking of not using inner envelopes.
Do we just address the outer envelope to the adults? For the children in the wedding party, do we include them on the addressed envelope too? We are thinking of putting where the reception info is shown "Adult only reception. Due to venue restrictions, 13 years and older only" They aren't excluded from the wedding as it's in a separate venue. If we end up doing inner envelopes, do we have all the children's names or just those 13 and up? Yes I know it will split some families which is a no-no, but I don't know how else to handle it.