Hello, our wedding was last month and I know there is always things you look back on and would change, I'm more-so needing to vent and see if I am handling this situation appropriately.
Here's a bit of background before I address the situation:
My husband's brother, and his wife never liked us together nor never personally liked me (for unknown reasons, all I've been is nice to them the rare occasions we see them) Me and my now husband have been together 5 years before we got married.
They were involved friend group we decided to leave due to the toxicity and drama that was constantly happening (they would try and break us up, post things about me on social media, run to husbands mom with lies and rumors about me, his brother and wife were involved in all of this!)
We decided to still invite them because things were going well and we have been civil for quite some time, and it's his brother so there was more reason to give them a chance.
During the reception, we had a open bar, we spent a lot of time and money on the bar and providing ng a assortment of alcohol (we had wine, beer, mixed drinks, you name it)
I found out they brought a huge cooler to the reception, with THEIR own cups and liquor, without even asking us.
They were requesting so many songs during dancing that barely any of the music we picked out got played, and they kept bumping people off the dance floor so it was just them! (This caused for a lot of guests to leave early)
His brother boo'd us off the stage during the generation dance, then bragged about how him and his wife got married before us.
In the wedding video, he would only clap for certain people in the wedding party that he knew and that was it.
What's your advice on this? I've been self evaluating to see if I'm wrong on this but this honestly made me wish I didn't invite them.