My apartment complex is small—only about six units. Most of us are long term residents and we have a friendly tradition of getting together for food and conversation in the courtyard. There has never been a hard and fast rule about who brings what, but common courtesy is you don’t show up empty handed.
A new family of five moved in about four months ago. They seemed nice enough and we invited them to join us. The father brought a pack of beer once or twice—but they always bring a horde of kids. Their children constantly have friends over and have outnumbered the adults more than once. Last time, I made two dozen cookies and the kids ate them all before I could blink.
I brought this to the attention of the mother and the fact none of us got a chance to get dessert. She laughed and joked about kids being hungry and then told me that next time I will know to make more. My other neighbors have had similar conversations with both parents. It’s like talking to a wall. We are debating what to do. Can you help?