Okay, we are in the year 2010 and everyone has a new/their own way of doing things, but am I crazy to be traditional and want my bridal shower gifts to be about me? IMHO the wedding gifts are meant to be given at the wedding not at the bridal shower and I honestly think people have forgotten that. The bridal shower is suppose to be about the bride. period. I want lingerie, hostess gifts, bridal day of attire gifts, cook books, etc etc. I was actually thinking of doing a victoria secret's wish list and federick's lingerie registry. One of my Aunt's made a comment saying isn't the wedding gift enough? UUUUGHHHHHH