I have 8 girls in my party...7 BM and a MOH
I've known my MOH longer than all of my other BMs and she lets it be known to them. Currently, they are planning the Bridal Shower and the MOH is taking her role a little too far, to the point to where the BMs are calling me telling on her because she's "telling" them what to do. Like "You need to get the things for the shower" or "This needs to be done by Tuesday". She's being very rude to them and me...By texting me and telling me she didn't "approve" anything I got one of the other BMs to do.
Tasks have been delegated and she has been stepping in and taking over the tasks that the other BMs have without speaking to them about it first.
I think she means well, but her personality is clashing with everyone else's and it is raising my anxiety level because they are telling me about it. I plan on talking to her, but I don't want to hurt her feelings. What should I do?