So my two closest female friends are not going to be able to make it to the wedding, a big bummer but I'm not attached to the idea of strictly gendered sides, so I ask my closest guy friend. Well to summarize a long conversation he says that he needs to think about it, because he's in love with me and always has been etc.
I definitely don't want him in the wedding party and I don't even want him at the wedding at all. I'm completely skeeved out and really pissed off. He's been friends with FI just as long as me and this is just so inappropriate.
FI thinks this is hilarious since I'm another completely unavailable girl this guy is interested in. He doesn't get why I'm not just flattered. I have no idea how to deal with this.