The bride chose her best friend from high school as MOH. Their relationship was fizzling and she thought all the activities and planning would bring them closer again. But it hasn't, its made all their issues worse. Aside from general selfishness and disagreeableness the biggest thing is that the MOH knowingly bought her dress 2 sizes too small and is refusing to have it altered or buy a new one in the right size. It's only 3 weeks until the wedding now.
The bride knows that etiquette says you can never fire a member of your wedding party, but why should you be forced by etiquette to have someone in your bridal party that is making you miserable? Even her pastor during marriage counseling thought the MOH should be kicked out. And their friendship is dead either way, at least that's how the bride says she feels about it.
What should she do? What would you do?