Ok - so still in the process of finding the venue. If anyone has a recommendation besides the ones I have looked at let me know - not opposed to going upstate. Looking for something not over $120 PP.
Here are some of the ones we've looked at:
FEAST at Round Hill - fiance didnt like the food
Grandview - not our style
The Rhinecliff - still in the running
Bird & Bottle Inn - no accessibility for wheelchairs
West Park Winery - afraid of rain but still in the running
Lydhurst Castle - too expensive
The Garrison - too expensive