I know this probably sounds weird, but I have a really hard time with being a bride. I hate being the center of attention and I hate having people do things for me. I am being very hands off on catering, wedding dress, DJ....just everything. I don't want to meet with the DJ and just said we want the basic thing and maybe we'll meet with him the week of the wedding. The hotel where we are having our reception said we could come in for a tasting, but we just plan on bbq and potato salad or something simple so bbq tastes like bbq, nothing special so no need to taste it. I'm just going to order a wedding dress from David's Bridal online rather than go into the store because I don't want anyone waiting on me. I just hate having people do things for me, maybe because I feel like I'm bothering them or taking up their time, even though I know it's their job.