...How much (if any) involvement do/did you have in the planning of the RD?
We have assumed we are paying for everything right from the start and hadn't been told otherwise so recently we started looking in to the rehearsal dinner location. It came up in casual conversation with FI's parents, at which time they let us know they would cover it.
I am unsure if I should back out of the planning of that from this point forward, or continue to search for a venue that meets our needs, decide on the menu etc and then let them know when it's done?