So the wedding is about two weeks away and one of my bridesmaids got a half sleeve tattoo last night! It is her style and she mentioned she wanted to do it but probably 8 months ago we had a very short conversation about it and she said she would wait until after the wedding. So my point is that im upset she did it mostly because she told me she would wait. She has quite a few tattoos already so she knows how to take care of them but she can't guarantee it wont get infected while healing and scab. So i sent her a text about it (worst mistake) and that exagerated the issue into a texting fued. She misread a lot of what I wrote. She thinks all i said was, "you are going to ruin all of my photos," which I never said. AHHHHH
She's obviously one of my best friends but the last thing I want to stress about is drama with bridesmaids. I know all brides prob say this but I have been super laid back, if they couldn't participate in something (bach parties) I didnt give them a hard time, I am not being picky about what they look like for the wedding. No one has to help me get any wedding stuff ready, etc. Extreme alteraions to your appearance is just not something you should do as a bridesmaid two weeks before the wedding!
Whats your thoughts?!?!