Ok, my sister is insanely jealous, and I really don't know what to do about it. What she is jealous about is completely out of my control, and she is jealous about everything in my life. Since I've gotten engaged her behavior has gotten much worse. An example of her being jealous, is over the past two years I have lost a lot of weight due to major illness, she has gained weight due to illness, but she's furious because I've lost weight and she hasn't. Mind you this illness, as with most, is not fun, and I would not wish it upon my worst enemy, but she's still mad because I'm thinner than I used to be. Her behavior has gotten worse in that she bad mouths me to all family and friends saying I'm a liar, calling me a bitch, and telling them how I have ruined her life. I would like to know how I have managed to ruin her life, other than just being born, which is apparently all that needed to happen. Most family and friends do not believe her because they know me well. They also know that I do not talk to her, I never call her, and I rarely see her. She just moved back to the US after living in England for over 5 years.
My sister is married to a Brit, and she had 2 weddings one there and one here. My fiance is from Jordan and we are having 2 weddings as well, one for his family, and one for mine. This is easier than trying to get his family, which is rather large, he is one of 9 kids plus his parents, and his siblings' families all here, or trying to get all of my family over there. Originally my mom and sister and nephew were going over though for the Jordanian wedding. However, my sister became very angry with me because my mom and I went to try on wedding dresses to see what I liked and what looked good on me. She has since decided she's not going to the Jordan wedding and she also deleted me as a facebook friend (the 2nd thing actually kind of amuses me). I actually don't care that she's not coming to the wedding over there, as I feel she would only find a way to embarrass me, or try to humiliate me or my mother in front of my fiance's family. I LOVE his family! His sisters are some of my best friends, and to have her there treating my mom and I like dirt would have just been awful! What I am now worried about is her coming to the American wedding. I know she is jealous that I am engaged and getting married, but she's already had her weddings, which she didn't pay for anything for, and I have to pay for mine, which I am a little miffed about, but it's not that big of a deal for me because I would rather pay for it myself than to have my family have to pay for it. I don't want her there because she is being so awful, but I know that I can't get out of inviting her to the wedding. Her and I previously agreed that she would not be in my wedding party because we do not get along. She already threatened to my mom of not coming, and to be honest I wouldn't care. However, my mom would not be happy, and she said she didn't want to have to explain it to the friends and family who would be there. Can I disown her? I would really like to at this point, and say I don't have a sister.
Anyhow, just needed to rant.