This may be a stupid question, but for the invitation do I set the time earlier than the actual ceremony time? Say 3:00, but the ceremony starts at 3:30? Reason I ask is that to me the time is when to show up, not when the ceremony starts. I figured the ceremony would just start as guest finish seating, but the lady who is organizing the ceremony said they start right on time and are rarely late. Just don't want people walking in as we are walking down the aisle!