As you remember from my OP about BM3 - she hadn't ordered her dress yet and was complaining about not having the money, she had known since October/November, etc.
I went for a manicure at the shop in Walmart last Thursday and I seen BM3 in there shopping. I turned and went the other way. I called my consultant from DB and asked if she had ordered yet and she said no, but she would call her because deadline was coming up. When my DB Consultant called me back, she said BM3 told her she just got out of the doctors office and didn't have anything with her to order the dress, debit card or whatever. That she would call her back and order by the weekend.
FIRST- I was so frustrated she lied to her! I just seen her in Walmart! Shopping! WTH?!
Today is the last day to order for my dresses to be here in time to be altered. I sent an email to all my BM yesterday with info on hair makeup and so forth, and asking them to confirm with me their dresses were ordered and if not today was the last day.
She immediately called me but I didn't answer. She texted me saying "Obviously, you and the lady at DB are on a different page bc she told me I could order next week." So I replied "I just got off the phone with her and to be here in time for alterations, today is the last day." She said, "well I guess I'm too late
" I said, "It's ok, I understand you have a lot going on." She said, "I really wanted to be apart of it tho." I said, "It's out of my control now, sorry." And that was it.
At this point, I am done with our friendship, and it may seem harsh, but she didn't have to lie to the DB girl, then lie to me to try and make me feel bad. On top of that, I recently found out some shady things she done when FI and I first got together. No love lost.
Thank you all for listening and for your support. I hope no one else has to deal with this.
Now I am down to 3 BM and we cut a GM last night (that was also complaining about renting a tux/suit)
Stress free from here on!