Ok, so my response doesn't actually answer OP's question. For me it's not a dealbreaker, but it sounds like it is for the OP. If he was actively in a hate group, expressing racist ideas, etc it woul… (View Post)
Cheating is a complete dealbreaker for me. He would have been out on his ass. Sounds like she's not particularly interested in spending time with him, so not really sure why she's still with him. (View Post)