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My bridesmaids and a family member generously offered to do certain things for and with me. I declined some and graciously accepted some. It's just very important not to go into wedding planning with… (View Post)

I wouldn't spend too much time feeling bummed about this. Your only contact with them is when you visit? Do you communicate with them at other times? If you only interact with them when you visit, it… (View Post)

The point of having people in your wedding party is to honor them for being your nearest and dearest, not to be unpaid help with wedding things. ETA: Having to decide if you like them enough to stand… (View Post)

Just cancel, do your private ceremony, and send announcements afterward. Don't try to plan some sort of replacement party.  (View Post)

I'm happy to have pizza (or cheese), but it's stupid to call it a "cake."  (View Post)