Don't do something (reading, unity candle, sand ceremony, etc) just to lengthen the ceremony; if it's there, it should be important. That said, I think some churches (Catholic churches, th… (View Post)
I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I get that you love him, but can you handle this for the rest of your life? The distrust, the betrayal? I could understand forgiving a transgres… (View Post)
"Adore" = important to me. As long as FI is on board, go for it then! Also, I read what happened to Ex-FSIL. Yikes. It stinks that you won't have the reading she wrote you, but if it&… (View Post)