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Me too. I mean well and can actually follow a plan really well, but I CANNOT make a decision about decorating (literally can't even picture how to hand pictures on the wall). Husband on other hand i… (View Post)

It is not a big deal at all. Next time she brings it up, your FI simply needs to say, "I'm sorry you feel that way, but this is what we have decided and that is final". Then just refuse to … (View Post)

you still haven't answered the question of what the venue will do if you are over the number. I think that plays a big role here.  (View Post)

I'd leave it "and guest". If you invited her by name (regardless of the husband situation) you may be opening yourself up to other aunts getting offended. This way, you have a clear excuse.… (View Post)

Honestly, I feel the same. It would look gift grabby to me (like when high school grads send out "graduation announcements" when you aren't actually invited to the graduation) (View Post)