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Here's my suggestion: Mail invitations to those you can afford to host for the night. If that's 80 people, then that's it. Everyone else will get over it. No cash bar. And also, here you go: (View Post)

I think that you should have gone with a color and length to begin with, but you asked them to choose all the same dress, so that's kind of over with. I would simply tell her that this is the dress a… (View Post)

Well, you got that right. Although I wish you had. I'm just shocked at how insensitive and selfish you sound. (View Post)

Can you make it so that your original maid of honor can afford it? If nnot, I wouldn't sweat it. If no oneb rise comes to mind, you can decide not to,hsve bridesmaids. (View Post)

Seconded. May I ask why she can't be a bridesmaid? (View Post)