There are lots of reasons people have a bigger wedding when they would prefer a JOP wedding. Parental pressure (not everyone is comfortable with telling their parents that they won't get to see thei… (View Post)
Also, remember that not everyone in the family needs an invite. If you have never met Aunt Mildred and FI hasn't seen her since he was 4 she probably doesn't need to come to the wedding. Inviting fam… (View Post)