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LW was probably fine. Heteronormativity is a thing, and it's an annoying thing, but as long as the person isn't otherwise rude or homophobic/misogynistic. Now if he was also mainsplaining, … (View Post)

Check your state and local laws regarding alcohol liability, then check your catering contract. I have the opposite experience from @holyguacamole79. Most weddings I've been to in NJ and NY hav… (View Post)

It's probably most fair for the BM to buy the MOH's dress from her then for the MOH to get a new one. (The BM will be in the hole for a second dress for a while, but that will be cleared up… (View Post)

All else aside, if you're not hosting the shower, you shouldn't be expected to pay for it. I was giving some major side-eye to that on your behalf. This is the perfect attitude to have. Ch… (View Post)

Ugh, I hate this kind of thinking. Men and women have largely the same psychology, with some aggregate patterns of differences in disposition (maybe) and socialization (definitely). You cannot drop … (View Post)